December 21, 2007 @ 12:28 pm

Players and Lovemakers: Pretty Ricky Answers Your Love Questions

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NEW COLUMN! Every Friday, hip hop R&B's expert lovermen answer your questions about relationships, break-ups, casual dating, that wild freaknik ish, and everything else under the sun. To submit a question, email prettyricky@vibe.com.

How do I know when it's ok to flirt with a married woman, if it seems like she's checking me out? - Michael, Brooklyn
U shouldn't flirt wit married women! If she's attracted to you or wants 2 engage in some kind of relationship with u she will do all the flirting. Most women would think that pursuing a married woman is morally wrong, but if a "married" woman is looking outside of her marriage for companionship, something's definitely wrong within the home! Proceed with caution!!! We don't wanna be responsible for no players getting shot up! - Pretty Ricky


My current guy isn't a boyfriend yet, and I know a lot of girls like him, and he might just want to be that single guy that can mess around with everyone, but I want him for myself. Should I tell him, or is he going to run away?
- Alexis, Oakland
If he's young, he's probably not ready to settle down and if u try to force him you'll most likely end up getting hurt in the process. If an older man makes you feel this way, he's not someone you want to be with either. U should try and connect with someone who makes u feel like you're the only one. You should probably take these steps!

First, ask yourself can you handle what comes with, being involved with someone who talks to a lot of women. (Higher probability of STDs is one, in case u were stuck.) Then ask yourself, are you really ready for a full fledged commitment.... probably not! You should look for someone who's into you just as much as u are into him! P.S. Pretty Ricky don't cheat! - Pretty Ricky


What do you do when you get relegated to the "friend zone"? Do you think there's a way to get out of there and date the person you're crushing on, or is it better to just move on? - Dawne, Miami
U should never sweat no dudes! To all the players out there, go get a J.T. Money CD and quote, "If a hoe wanna hoe, nigga let her go." To the girls out there that's stuck on stupid in love and can't see the truth; try flirting with one of his friends to see how he reacts and make your move from there. It'll be an obvious decision! If u take this route make sure u got some mace on standby and remember the golden rule; everything is a weapon!!!! -Pretty Ricky


What's the best Christmas present to get for my woman? -Sean, Philly
Diamonds are a girl's best friend.
If u ballin on a budget, WAL-MART has some on CLEARANCE!!!
Happy holidays from ya boys Pretty Ricky Ricky Ricky!

Need advice on your love life? You know Pretty Ricky can handle it. Email your questions to prettyricky@vibe.com.

Pretty Ricky's most recent album Late Night Special, is in stores.





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1.

sweethard says:

spectacular i luv u so much ,im 18 & i was wondering what u like in a girl.

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strawberry1 says:

Love My Boyz Especialy Sexy Specta, He is so f**king Sexy. Only if we lived in the same city.It would be over for him. I would hol@him anyday. Love U Spectacular

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keke2fine says:

OMG II LUV SPECTACLAR U R SO SEXY

4.

d0nyale says:

i really like this boy at skoo and iono if he like me he flirt alot but iono if like he flirtn wit me cuz im a girl with titties and booty or cuz he like me also he has a rep for bein a male ho wat should i do

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Luv_lik_honi says:

OK, i swear my man is cheatin on me, and i have evidence, but he tries to flip the script on me saying that i should trust him, and that he can't be in a relationship with someone he can't trust (ain't that about a b**ch, lol). what should i do??? OH, and Spectacular i found out what a "Jackson Five" was (not the singin group, lol). Remember you asked me that a few months back, when i called you. My name is Ashley, and i told you i was from Pittsburgh the same city Crave is from!!! Hit me back, Love all ya'll!!! Ur number one fan

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specs_wifey says:

I'm so excited that you guys are showing up more and more every where. I love u guys....damn ur all sexy as hell too..but gotta keep it real for spectacular cause hes fine as hell..sorry boys hes looking the best...but keep up the advice its actually good advice and not like oh were guys takin game on here, lol

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LaDiSliCk305 says:

ii Knew We Would Hear From My Guys Soon I Was So Happy When I Found Out That U Guys Were Doin This BUt I New U Guys Would Do Something Soon And I Cant Wait Till Yall Make A New Cd(Dont Get Me Wrong I Love My Late Night Special)........lol

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pretty says:

hey pretty ricky, yo look hella good and holla at yo gurl..

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salb says:

I was really suprised at the decent advice given by my boys pretty ricky keep it up guys love ya

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